Is Your Wife's 'Headache' Really God's Wake-Up Call?
what if I told you those 'headaches' aren't really about her head at all?
"Brothers, gather 'round. It's time for some holy headache relief.
No, I'm not talking about that bottle of Tylenol in your medicine cabinet. I'm talking about the 'headache' that's killing your bedroom – and your marriage.
You know the one. It sounds like:
• 'Not tonight, honey.'
• 'I'm too tired.'
• 'Maybe tomorrow.'
But what if I told you those 'headaches' aren't really about her head at all?
What if they're actually God's spiritual megaphone, shouting:
'WAKE UP, YOU SPIRITUAL WIMP!'
Harsh? Maybe. True? Absolutely.
You see, there's a test you've been failing. A test you didn't even know you were taking.
It's called 'feminine testing,' and it's the reason your wife's respect for you is lower than Jonah in the belly of that fish.
But fear not, my brothers in Christ. This isn't the end of your story. It's just the beginning of your comeback.
So put down that 'How to Spice Up Your Marriage' book. (Seriously, essential oils won't fix this.)
Instead, let's dive into God's playbook for winning back your wife's heart, mind, and yes – even her bedroom enthusiasm.
Buckle up, gentlemen. It's time to turn your marriage from lukewarm to on fire for the Lord!"
Your wife's respect isn't a given—it's earned. And if she doesn't respect you, she's not submitting to you as the Bible commands.
"Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord." (Ephesians 5:22 KJV)
What is feminine testing?
It's when your wife pushes back or questions you. Not to manipulate, but to confirm her security in your leadership.
Remember, Eve was deceived in the garden. Women crave the security of strong, godly leadership.
"For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression." (1 Timothy 2:13-14 KJV)
Passing these tests reminds her you're the head of the household, as God ordained.
Failing? You're abdicating your God-given role.
Let's break it down:
The Simple Choice Test
Scenario: Your wife asks which shirt she should wear.
Worldly response: "Whatever you want, honey."
Godly response: "Wear the blue one. It looks great on you."
Why it works: You're demonstrating confident leadership, even in small decisions.
"But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God." (1 Corinthians 11:3 KJV)
The Conviction Test
Scenario: You're working on your health. She says, "Why are you so focused on working out?"
Weak response: "You're right, maybe I should relax."
Strong response: "I'm stewarding the body God gave me. I won't compromise on this."
Why it works: You're showing resolve and spiritual maturity.
"What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?" (1 Corinthians 6:19 KJV)
Remember, these tests aren't about manipulation. They're your wife's subconscious way of checking if you're fit to lead.
When you pass, you're not just earning her respect. You're fulfilling God's design for marriage.
"For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body." (Ephesians 5:23 KJV)
But here's the crucial part: This isn't about domination. It's about loving, Christ-like leadership.
"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;" (Ephesians 5:25 KJV)
Passing these tests allows you to lead with love and strength. It makes your wife feel secure, cherished, and ready to follow your lead—in and out of the bedroom.
So, men, step up. Recognize these tests for what they are: opportunities to be the godly leader your wife needs and God commands you to be.
Don't shy away from decisions.
Don't waver in your convictions.
Lead with confidence, tempered by Christ-like love.
Your marriage—and your witness—depend on it.
"Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband." (Ephesians 5:33 KJV)
Now go forth and lead, brothers. Your King and your queen are counting on you.
To my point on previous comment about BAAL principality over America......Recent UN move promoting sexualization of children....."Fifty-one countries, including Syria, Iran, Russia, Congo, and China, strongly opposed the proposed exceptions. Unconscionably, a contingent of 91 countries, led by the U.S., overruled them, and the exceptions were ratified on August 9. The General Assembly is expected to formally adopt the treaty by the end of this year and then open it to countries for signature.
Take careful note of this moment: Iran is on the right side of a moral issue, and America is on the wrong side."
https://ifapray.org/blog/worse-worlds-children/
The Book of Joel calls this behavior out and the Book of Amos main theme is about how the Israelites were just as wicked as any other country and, that God would have to punish them also. The JerUSAlem of today is no different.
Only deep repentance with prayer and fasting by every individual in the church will revive America and western culture in general.
"They threw dice to decide which of my people would be their slaves. They traded boys to obtain prostitutes and sold girls for enough wine to get drunk." (Joel 3:3 NLT)
"From among all the families on the earth, I have been intimate with you alone. That is why I must punish you for all your sins." (Amos 3:2 NLT)
This all seems simple enough but in my experience it does not work in a culture that is overridden with a BAAL principality. This same principality has caused males to submit to the leadership of women via the altruistic doctrines of diversity and inclusion for equal outcomes delusion. Driving a polite incorrectness that has surfaced through the doctrines of the influential women of our culture that your every day Pagan and Christian women of society admire so much. Many are attending the Church of Oprah (Throws out John14:6), while at the alter of the Kardashians (Spirit of Pornia - Isaiah 3:17b) and singing the songs of Taylor Swift the Haughty Hottie. (Isaiah 3:16).
The Spiritual Warfare is much deeper than being an assertive male with a gentlemen's delivery as the weaker vessel has been overcome just as the book of Timothy called it.
"They are the kind who worm their way into homes and gain control over gullible women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires, 7 always learning but never able to come to a knowledge of the truth." (2Tim3:6-7)
"They" being the likes of Winfrey, Kardashians and Swift...